after you connect that way with another person, there’s no other way to live. After you know what it’s like to have someone you feel connected with, you can’t really do without that connection anymore.

It’s like your whole life you’ve been lonely and fine, because you didn’t even know you were lonely. It’s like you’ve always been fine without glasses, because you didn’t even know your vision was wrong. Once you connect with someone like that, you instantly realize how lonely it has been all this while. Once you put on glasses, you see that the green blobs you’ve been seeing on trees are actually leaves, and you instantly realise how bad your vision has always been.

And you can’t really go back to being that lonely anymore. You can’t really go back to living without glasses and with that bad vision anymore.

And that’s where many wrong relationships happen. People are so desperate for that connection, they see it even when it’s not there.

I don’t want to become like that. I want to forever be fine alone. I want to never realize how lonely I am.